You can't rush the time!

You know becoming a mom, thru your pregnancy your mind rushes thru so many thoughts. What will your baby be like? What will do and not do? Timing of life kicks in and it feels like lit is happening so fast. You see how different people have clothes, a nursery, the next best thing for their babies and sometimes it is easy to get caught up in feeling like your the only one whose trying to figure out how you are gonna pay for diapers and wipes. You know over the weeks as I have watched husbands hold their babies, men take on children that aren't theirs and how people can step into situations and make the most of it. As some of the most important in my life have taught me that I have just done things out of order. And that is OKAY!! It is different life lessons I will learn. Well in these lessons I have learned I have found how my beauty is doing things to at different times. She isn't doin everything at the same exact time as others her age...and I have found how easily that can get discouraging. It makes me look at how I am not doing my job as a mom...that is she becoming exactly who she needs to be? Have I gave her the life she deserves? You know what I have found thru these moments. It isn't the timing of of children. It is the fact that they are doin it. That is enough! it is enjoying the moment your child is learning characteristics. Ones that they will take with them as they handle life experiences. So when you are down and don't understand why your baby is up to par. Focus on all the things they ARE DOING!!!